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	<title>Getting Some Game &#187; flirting</title>
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		<title>Mission 10 Overview</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mission 10 brings us back on track. No more approaching dudes for mission requirements. The focus of this mission is <em>disqualification</em>. The goal of disqualification is to meet women and tell, in some way, them you <em>don't</em> want to date them. The author, Neil Strauss, claims this is the "bedrock of flirting".]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mission 10 brings us back on track. No more approaching dudes for mission requirements. The focus of this mission is <em>disqualification</em>. The goal of disqualification is to meet women and tell, in some way, them you <em>don&#8217;t</em> want to date them. The author, Neil Strauss, claims this is the &#8220;bedrock of flirting&#8221;.</p>
<p><b>The mission:</b> Meet <b>three</b> women and use a <b>disqualifier</b>.</p>
<p>One important note on disqualification from the book:</p>
<blockquote><p>Most disqualifiers are meant to be playful. Others are used to demonstrate that you have high standards and won&#8217;t date or sleep with just anyone. However, a disqualifier should never be hostile, critical, judgemental, or condescending. There&#8217;s a fine line between flirting and hurting. And disqualification is never intended to be mean or insulting. So say these with a smile on your face and laughter in your voice, as if you were good-naturedly picking on a younger sibling.</p></blockquote>
<p>Some ideas for disqualifiers:</p>
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<li>Ask her what her favorite movie is, then respond, &#8220;You actually liked that? That&#8217;s it. I&#8217;m going home. Nice meeting you.&#8221;</li>
<li>Do you have a gold medal? I only date women who&#8217;ve won a gold medal, you better hurry and get one.</li>
<li>What&#8217;s the wildest, craziest thing you&#8217;ve ever done? That&#8217;s great. You and my grandma would really get along.</li>
<li>A good girl like you should probably be talking to a nice boy like that one over there.</li>
<li>If she touches you, hey now, hands off the merchandise. That&#8217;ll be $40.</li>
<li>The book has a bunch more of these&#8230;</li>
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<p>The author also writes, &#8220;This is going to be the most difficult mission of the challenge so far&#8221;. But I don&#8217;t think so. I think I&#8217;ve been doing this in several of my interactions so far by saying girls are the &#8220;Mom&#8221; of the group or telling them I was hoping they were a yoga instructor. I think this should go well.</p>
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