Posts Tagged conversations

Wingwoman Night Out – Jessica Biel Look-a-like

December 16, 2009

I met Jessica Biel’s look-a-like (just with blonde hair). Striking girl. This interaction was not specifically part of any mission, or style change, but it occurred during the process of Mission 5 when we were out on the town.

Mission 7 Field Test – Approaches 2, 3, and 4

December 14, 2009

Once again, Mission 7 is to use an opener and approach. I did the first one last weekend. Here are the rest of the approaches that happened during my Wingwoman night out in Belltown with Maria The Date Coach (post coming soon). Mission 7 is now complete…I did it. :)

Mission 7 Field Test – Approach 1 of 3

December 10, 2009

Mission 7 is to approach 3 women or sets, and use an opener. Here’s the first that took place last weekend.

Mission 6 Overview, Field Test, and Summary

December 1, 2009

Mission 6 is all about overcoming AA. Aproach anxiety. Before I get into the mission, my take on approach anxiety is that it is something that I will never not have. My goal is to find a way to manage it. As the author Neil Strauss says, “it’s less a fear of approaching than a fear of rejection”.

Mission 4 Complete!

November 18, 2009

This was a good mission. It actually required talking to women. Overall, I think I both surpassed with flying colors but also bombed slightly. Thus, my grade…

Mission 4 Field Test Report and Party Time

November 16, 2009

To re-cap, the field test for Mission 4 was to approach 3 women and ask for a menswear store recommendation. I had a tough time finding both time and targets for this during the work week. But over the weekend I had a chance to go to a fun house party.

Mission 3 Field Test – Phone Calls

November 8, 2009

The field test for this mission is to call 3 people, at random, and ask them to recommend a movie. In the book, the author’s aim is for an exercise where we “only use our voice”. There is a long vocal training briefing in the book. The goal of all this is to learn to “take control of conversations in real life and direct them towards the outcome you want”. In other words, change the course of an interaction without making the other person uncomfortable.