These are the rules I am setting for myself to complete the Stylelife Challenge.

Book Rule: DON’T READ AHEAD! Follow the book and read one mission at a time. Complete the mission, write about it, and then read the next.

PERSONAL GOAL RULES

Rule 1: I must be emotionally attracted to the women I pursue.
I’m not doing this just to score. I want to experience attraction and make a connection with someone. It doesn’t have to be long-term, but it has to happen.

Rule 2: I must be physically attracted to the women I pursue.
I have standards that I don’t feel are too low or too high. I have my own preferences when it comes to women. For example, I don’t worship blonds with big boobs. That’s not my style. I prefer women that don’t wear a lot of make-up. not fake and flashy. But I do like thin. I’m in shape so being overweight is unattractive to me. I think Kate Beckinsdale, Eliza Dushku, and Emmanuelle Chriqui are SEXY. My ideal woman is funny, flirty, spunky, and creative; she’ll be someone I’ll want to follow out of my comfort zone.

Rule 3: I can’t talk about this project.
They can’t know I am doing this as a process of self-improvement. It has to be real and I can’t use this blog as a device. This blog is a reflection of my project, not a project itself.

Rule 4: Any results have to stem from this project.
I’ve “gotten lucky” in the past. That’s been my method up to this point. Just wait for whatever comes along. Anything that happens like that does not count. In fact, I’m going to finish this project before I let a committed relationship happen.

Rule 5: Improve all areas of my life.
The best way to attract women is to be attractive. This isn’t going to be solved by a book alone. So along with improving my “game” I am also trying to be more attractive in other ways. I have a good job already. I’m now spending a bit more on some cool clothes and hitting the gym several times per week. Doing these things feels good even when not done for any other purpose than that. I must continue improving all aspects.

Bonus round rule: Use protection.